You are not wealthy unless you have something money cannot buy
Hi! How about let us have healthy protein dinner in the form of ground turkey incorporated with celery, carrots and cilantro? Nothing can be better than this, right? But before I will show you the recipe, can I blab about this community forum I joined?
Since I just moved here in KS, I do not really have much friends, so I turned to the internet to find me my new buddies. Yeah, we talk, but not as fast because the communication is done by typing on the keyboard in which I am not that good at, by the way. I like this forum because it is different from chatting. Questions were asked and the group have the option to answer them or not. So, there is no pressure.
One of the member asked where she can find a good husband material. She went on to say that she had just gotten out from a failed relationship and now, she is going to find “the one.” I feel remorse for her because I can sense an urgency on her search. She has the right to look for an answer because after all, it is her future and it is her life. I believe that she must be so desperate to seek help from strangers.
I am not an expert about life, but I had experiences that can somehow help her and hopefully, will help some of our single readers. To be honest, I really believe that who you choose to marry, or who you choose to be your partner can make or break your happiness. Imagine living with a man/woman who is self centered and selfish . These spell – miserable life.
Some of the members in the forum gave her advice. Although they sound trivial, I also think they are feasible. Here they are!
WHERE CAN YOU FIND A GOOD HUSBAND MATERIAL
LOOK FOR MEN IN THE LAUNDROMAT
If she wants a man who are caring, she should go to laundromat place. When I was writing this piece, I happened to visit a laundromat to do my huge laundry and I thought I can put this advice to the test (please note that I am married. I am just doing this for experiment). While in there, I looked around and see if there are possible husband material in there based on the looks. And true enough, there were three men with different personalities.
There was one who was good looking and was neatly dressed. I did not see cigarettes in his pocket, he was dressed neatly and I did not see baby clothes in his laundry too.
There was an Asian guy with a huge glasses. He is with another guy but he looked smart in his glasses. He is not very good looking, but his disposition was very refreshing. Based on his appearance, I categorized him as the awkward kid in high school that nobody noticed but is the one who will get those A’s an will certainly go to college. I have not seen his pile of laundry, but I am guessing in his looks that he is single.
The third guy. He is the laid back looking guy.This guy, I do not care so much. He has cigarettes in his pocket. I do not like a man who smokes.He is unkempt and so he has many tattoos too.
IN THE HARDWARE STORE
I did not go to hardware store to test this advice, but I have a friend who met her husband in a hardware store. The men just approached her, they dated for a few months and they have been happily married for four years now.
This is where I met my husband. I joined a church group for young professionals and I am now married for 15 years. We have the same faith and beliefs. Although my marriage is not perfect, we both believe that divorce is not an option. We also have the same belief on how to raise our kids and how to spend and save our money.
COLLEGES OR UNIVERSITIES
Usually men who goes to college are mostly responsible and ambitious. So, there is a big chance that you can meet a man who has the same commonality as you.
These are just few advice from the forum members but as for me, I really think that she should get a piece of paper and a pen then write down what is the kind of man she is looking for. She should jot down and honestly look deep inside her what she wants for a husband, and what are the things that are important to her in a marriage. By doing so, she will clearly see her standards in a man. She should be very specific on what is the extent of provision or lifestyle she wants. Or what kind of emotional needs she has that this man need to give to her. And most, she should be clear that the man shares the same belief as her.
Armed with this notes, she should go to places where these type of men revolve. For sure, she cannot find the “one” right away, so she needs to spend “this waiting time ” developing herself into a woman that deserves that noble man she is looking for. And, she should never ever lower her standards.
How about you? Where did you find you man/husband?